It’s Old School Friday time! This week’s meme is Songs You Despise But Know the Words To. I had to think about that one for a while. Since the rules are songs must have been released before 1999 that leaves out all of the current music I’d most certainly choose. So I thought of this song because of the obvious street harassment/sexual objectification angles. Before anyone thinks I take this one song very seriously though I don’t – necessarily.
Watching video of the Commodores at that time usually made me laugh because they’d be considered so fey in today’s hypermasculine/thug culture. Also I look at this song as part of a larger evaluation of the oversexualization that occurs within a segment of the black community where women “let it all hang out” for male approval. Clearly that needs to change if women are going to be empowered. We must be able to relate to men – or have them relate to us – in a manner that benefits us across all strata of society. What may be “acceptable” in some circles would be detrimental in others. Also we all know we may want to be able to be sexy but it needs to be under circumstances and in an environment of our choosing. Ok, that was way more intense than intended but pop culture certainly provides a means of making things more relatable.