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	<title>Comments on: How Does Fighting For Oscar Grant Benefit Black Women?</title>
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		<title>By: jubilee</title>
		<link>http://actsoffaithblog.com/how-does-fighting-for-oscar-grant-benefit-black-women/comment-page-1#comment-4701</link>
		<dc:creator>jubilee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Aug 2010 07:12:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am so sorry for the loss of your brother. Like you, I can&#039;t stand for black women to fight the &#039;white&#039; cops (hegemony) for the sake of BM. As it looks to me, black women are hurting their own protection. Cops are to protect and to serve, and a losing game is for a usually white cop to protect a black women and their kids who are babies whose daddies are nowhere to be found. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am so sorry for the loss of your brother. Like you, I can&#039;t stand for black women to fight the &#039;white&#039; cops (hegemony) for the sake of BM. As it looks to me, black women are hurting their own protection. Cops are to protect and to serve, and a losing game is for a usually white cop to protect a black women and their kids who are babies whose daddies are nowhere to be found. </p>
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		<title>By: Faith</title>
		<link>http://actsoffaithblog.com/how-does-fighting-for-oscar-grant-benefit-black-women/comment-page-1#comment-4416</link>
		<dc:creator>Faith</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Jul 2010 20:33:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sharifa: Thanks for your comments. If printing out the post helps even one black woman to reconsider her support then please do so. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sharifa: Thanks for your comments. If printing out the post helps even one black woman to reconsider her support then please do so. </p>
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		<title>By: Sharifa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sharifa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Jul 2010 18:36:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Faith, 
 
I wanted to add my condolences on the loss of your brother. Great article. I live in the Bay Area and I feel like I want to print this out and distribute it. I bet many of those BW who were out &#039;protesting&#039; aren&#039;t even safe within their own homes, and they put out energy on this mess. Thanks for your writing. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Faith,</p>
<p>I wanted to add my condolences on the loss of your brother. Great article. I live in the Bay Area and I feel like I want to print this out and distribute it. I bet many of those BW who were out &#039;protesting&#039; aren&#039;t even safe within their own homes, and they put out energy on this mess. Thanks for your writing. </p>
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		<title>By: Faith</title>
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		<dc:creator>Faith</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Jul 2010 18:54:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Anna and I&#039;m glad it was a thought-provoking read for you. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Anna and I&#039;m glad it was a thought-provoking read for you. </p>
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		<title>By: A N N A</title>
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		<dc:creator>A N N A</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Jul 2010 15:29:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>First, let me offer my condolences. I am so sorry for the loss of your brother. May his memory be eternal. 
 
Having said that, wow. What an eye-opening, thought-provoking post. Thank you for writing it. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>First, let me offer my condolences. I am so sorry for the loss of your brother. May his memory be eternal.</p>
<p>Having said that, wow. What an eye-opening, thought-provoking post. Thank you for writing it. </p>
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		<title>By: Faith</title>
		<link>http://actsoffaithblog.com/how-does-fighting-for-oscar-grant-benefit-black-women/comment-page-1#comment-4238</link>
		<dc:creator>Faith</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Jul 2010 19:24:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Arlyne: Thanks and &lt;em&gt;I&#039;m sorry for your loss as well&lt;/em&gt;. Someone mentioned on a social networking site that should Grant&#039;s mother get any recompense from the City of Oakland she should pay out $$$$ to her son&#039;s previous victims for his crimes first. Considering he was arrested 12 times in a 4 year period there has to be at least &lt;strong&gt;one&lt;/strong&gt;. 
 
Khadija: I didn&#039;t want this to be a relay of horror. I just hear these same tired excuses from blacks who employ a double standard of concern for black male criminals and never their victims. I used to think blacks had pissed God off to be suffering so much but it really does come down to our choices. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Arlyne: Thanks and <em>I&#039;m sorry for your loss as well</em>. Someone mentioned on a social networking site that should Grant&#039;s mother get any recompense from the City of Oakland she should pay out $$$$ to her son&#039;s previous victims for his crimes first. Considering he was arrested 12 times in a 4 year period there has to be at least <strong>one</strong>.</p>
<p>Khadija: I didn&#039;t want this to be a relay of horror. I just hear these same tired excuses from blacks who employ a double standard of concern for black male criminals and never their victims. I used to think blacks had pissed God off to be suffering so much but it really does come down to our choices. </p>
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		<title>By: Khadija Nassif</title>
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		<dc:creator>Khadija Nassif</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Jul 2010 19:02:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Faith, 
 
You said, &lt;i&gt;&quot;What was even worse was a neighbor who came out to investigate was also murdered when she was hit by a stray bullet the career criminal had unleashed into a crowd of people.&quot;&lt;/i&gt; 
 
&lt;b&gt;Oh, my God . . . [!!!]&lt;/b&gt;  
 
May God rest her soul as well as you&#039;re brother&#039;s. And may the . . . individual . . . that committed these murders finally be brought to justice. BEFORE he/it burns in Hell in the afterlife. Amen. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Faith,</p>
<p>You said, <i>&quot;What was even worse was a neighbor who came out to investigate was also murdered when she was hit by a stray bullet the career criminal had unleashed into a crowd of people.&quot;</i></p>
<p><b>Oh, my God . . . [!!!]</b> </p>
<p>May God rest her soul as well as you&#039;re brother&#039;s. And may the . . . individual . . . that committed these murders finally be brought to justice. BEFORE he/it burns in Hell in the afterlife. Amen. </p>
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		<title>By: ARLYNE</title>
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		<dc:creator>ARLYNE</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Jul 2010 18:24:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I can only offer condolence to his mother.  But sadly, he was not concerned about his mother by the choices he made.  If we respect BM and except their bad choices, he should bear the guilt of hurting his mother. 
 
I too have lost a brother to a black on black killing.  I still feel he hurt our mother with his choices.  I want BM to start looking at that too. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can only offer condolence to his mother.  But sadly, he was not concerned about his mother by the choices he made.  If we respect BM and except their bad choices, he should bear the guilt of hurting his mother.</p>
<p>I too have lost a brother to a black on black killing.  I still feel he hurt our mother with his choices.  I want BM to start looking at that too. </p>
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		<title>By: ARLENE</title>
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		<dc:creator>ARLENE</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Jul 2010 17:08:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My wish for BW is to stop seeing the BM as a &quot;virtuous victim&quot;.  The BW keeps herself sick (depression, over-eating, hypertension, etc.) by being in a constant low-grade rage over the--plight of the BM.  She allows herself to remain stuck in the position of defender-protector.  My wish is for BW to truly become strong and let the BM take his lumps.  Respect the BM&#039;s life choices and let whatever happens to him happen.  I want BW to be truly strong and do their best in finding their own happiness. May BW find happiness whether it be with a non BM, with supportive friends/family or with their children (or all of the above).   
  
The BM problems are HIS problems---he needs to solve them. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My wish for BW is to stop seeing the BM as a &quot;virtuous victim&quot;.  The BW keeps herself sick (depression, over-eating, hypertension, etc.) by being in a constant low-grade rage over the&#8211;plight of the BM.  She allows herself to remain stuck in the position of defender-protector.  My wish is for BW to truly become strong and let the BM take his lumps.  Respect the BM&#039;s life choices and let whatever happens to him happen.  I want BW to be truly strong and do their best in finding their own happiness. May BW find happiness whether it be with a non BM, with supportive friends/family or with their children (or all of the above).  </p>
<p>The BM problems are HIS problems&#8212;he needs to solve them. </p>
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		<title>By: Faith</title>
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		<dc:creator>Faith</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Jul 2010 17:07:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Felicia: Thanks so much for condolences. It&#039;s why black women cannot afford to coddle criminals! 
 
Nia: Thank you as well. What was even worse was a neighbor who came out to investigate was also murdered when she was hit by a stray bullet the career criminal had unleashed into a crowd of people. 
 
Zoopath: In the black male as endangered species narrative there&#039;s no room for anyone else, no personal responsibility and no scrutiny. It&#039;s all due to white racism and poverty.  
 
Chloe: The media narrative was slanted after the first few days I think mostly due to the video evidence from the camera phones of the BART passengers. It did tend to favor the appearance of a subdued detainee being unnecessarily brutalized. This is where a little research has to come into play. Grant&#039;s father has a criminal history as well. The police got involved because they had received multiple calls about a rowdy group of males that were growing increasingly violent. So they stopped the trains and investigated. It&#039;s my understanding that Grant may have tried to get his &quot;friends&quot; to stop harrassing the other passengers but his initial contact with the police was one where he resisted and argued with them. Not the thing to do as an ex-con at a station plagued with crime.  
 
CW: Thanks and your description of your relatives is too funny because I also have distant male relatives or hangers-on that I saw behave that way growing up. Then I had no choice about their presence since they were invited by the adult women in my family. Now I refuse to have anything to do with the lot of them! 
 
Wizard0fOz321: Hello...and thanks for stopping by. 
 
Halima: Thanks again! 
 
 
&lt;strong&gt;****I wrote a slightly different but still relevant guest post related to Grant &amp; Mehserle at &lt;a href=&quot;http://allaboutrace.com&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;http://allaboutrace.com&lt;/a&gt; If the audience can bear with further discussion about this.&lt;/strong&gt; </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Felicia: Thanks so much for condolences. It&#039;s why black women cannot afford to coddle criminals! </p>
<p>Nia: Thank you as well. What was even worse was a neighbor who came out to investigate was also murdered when she was hit by a stray bullet the career criminal had unleashed into a crowd of people. </p>
<p>Zoopath: In the black male as endangered species narrative there&#039;s no room for anyone else, no personal responsibility and no scrutiny. It&#039;s all due to white racism and poverty.  </p>
<p>Chloe: The media narrative was slanted after the first few days I think mostly due to the video evidence from the camera phones of the BART passengers. It did tend to favor the appearance of a subdued detainee being unnecessarily brutalized. This is where a little research has to come into play. Grant&#039;s father has a criminal history as well. The police got involved because they had received multiple calls about a rowdy group of males that were growing increasingly violent. So they stopped the trains and investigated. It&#039;s my understanding that Grant may have tried to get his &quot;friends&quot; to stop harrassing the other passengers but his initial contact with the police was one where he resisted and argued with them. Not the thing to do as an ex-con at a station plagued with crime.  </p>
<p>CW: Thanks and your description of your relatives is too funny because I also have distant male relatives or hangers-on that I saw behave that way growing up. Then I had no choice about their presence since they were invited by the adult women in my family. Now I refuse to have anything to do with the lot of them! </p>
<p>Wizard0fOz321: Hello&#8230;and thanks for stopping by. </p>
<p>Halima: Thanks again! </p>
<p><strong>****I wrote a slightly different but still relevant guest post related to Grant &amp; Mehserle at <a href="http://allaboutrace.com" rel="nofollow">http://allaboutrace.com</a> If the audience can bear with further discussion about this.</strong> </p>
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