I knew it!!!
Rock is being sued by filmmaker Regina Kimbell for copyright infringement for swiping her film My Nappy Roots with his insulting “make fun of black woman hair angst” rip-off. I hope she has a good lawyer. If he can’t get the case dismissed outright he’ll probably seek to settle it with a non-disclosure clause attached.
Why is ANYONE surprised? Black men pushing out or outright hijacking black women creators of stories that are supposedly of benefit to us is all the rage these days apparently. Tyler Perry did it to Nzingha Stewart with For Colored Girls. Now here comes Rock with the uppercut! One can argue about access and clout and financing and blah blah blah but the BOTTOM line is these men are out to make money at our expense – and can’t even be bothered to come up with an original concept themselves. They think they have the right to sell our stories back to us through their flawed perspectives while erasing us from participating in the first place.
As long as we FOOLISHLY support these parasites we will continue to be fed off of!
Kimbell showed (why Regina why?) Rock her 2005 documentary in 2007 and he’s taken her idea and run with it. Allegedly. Much in the same way Harvey is being sued for plagiarism by author Sharon P. Carson over her book, “Act Like A Lady Think Like A Man”. Yes it’s the same title – but her book has actual empowerment themes. His watered down version doesn’t even compare. Rock’s nearly 1.5 hour MOCK-U-MENTARY cracks jokes against black women throughout the entire piece – because being chased by a giant ball of hair is so funny.
Nor does his documentary address the core of the issue why so many women suffer the effects of a colorist and sexist black community. He claims it’s supposed to be “good” for us but actions speak louder than words. So many black women question their worth because of the self-hate and subjugation of weak-minded black men. It’s due to women having to navigate through a patriarchal society where male approval carries a lot of weight. It’s because these men as a collective choose to opt out of their blackness wherever they can and ridicule us at every opportunity. Still so many black women are ignoring the obvious. It’s due to the lack of boundaries being set and the “go along to get along” mentality.
While it’s true hair care products and their ilk is a billion dollar industry so is the porn industry. So is food processing. So are many other industries that seek to chip away at our self-esteem or make us question our worth. The bottom line is intact families with confident parents who want their children and have a solid spiritual practice and values wouldn’t be so easily assaulted by some faceless corporation and its interests. Turn off the tv. Don’t read that magazine. Stop funding those that tear you down. Remove the oxygen from the leeches and they’ll wither away. Don’t put race construct above your elevation and thriving. It’s all business to them and as long as you are willing to hand over your hard-earned cash they’ll take it to bash you with. So the cycle continues.
Other groups of women are assaulted with similar messages yet their communities are not in the state of decline like the dead black community is. They still have a culture that uplifts the women in the group (racial construct). The focus cannot only be sent outward to blame others (i.e whites and racism) for what is at its core an internal problem of hatred of the things that make us uniquely black. It goes from labeling women with certain skin tones as being undesirable to longing for hair that blows in the wind with ease. It goes from some women proudly announcing how they don’t “need” a man to the expectation from some men that they should work, cook, clean, raise children, provide sex and other resources all without benefit of marriage. We’ve been railroaded and run over. Aren’t the miles of tire tracks across our backs enough? Instead of seeing the forest for the trees and GETTING OUT too many black women remain, clinging to totems of a by-gone time and battle and belittle each other instead.
More and more are getting it though. These “famous” men couldn’t really have that many career opportunities if they have to constantly
steal borrow ideas from the black women. If we cut them off they wouldn’t have a career in fact – or at the very least would NEVER pull the crap the do. For all their “jokes” there’s always certain people they never offer up for laughs. It wouldn’t be tolerated. Hollywood (and the corporate world) may be harsh but nobody likes a low-down dirty dog who can’t properly compete against other men and shifts their focus to fighting women for crumbs. Oprah may need to reevaluate her ability to stay neutral as this is 0-for-3 to giving unfettered access (and her “sanctioned” blessing) for these projects.
Speaking of that – where is all this “black love” for BLACK WOMEN?! This hijacking of our ideas and cannibalizing the purity of these projects for some messed-up version is going to continue as the bottom-feeders continue to get more desperate. Black women who have creative skills are going to have to get way more business savvy, social media acclimated and STOP ASSUMING ALL BLACK MEN HAVE OUR BEST INTERESTS AT HEART!!
The proof is in the pudding….and it’s dried up and rotten.