Lois and Clark getting a little friendlier…..
It’s been a minute or two since I’ve added a new installment to this series, but this was an opportune moment. In other words, I really needed to have something to say! While posts at the main site vary in frequency, you can always find daily conversation at Twitter or Facebook.
Despite some of the more recent upsetting current events, we must keep moving forward. I say this as much for myself as for all of you, that we have to find a way past obstacles and see the best outcomes for ourselves. That’s not easy.
So, after reminding women to be women and stop feeling obligated to be good little soldiers lined up on the battlefields only to be knocked down, reacquaint yourself with your va-va-voom. And you can’t get your sexy on while feeling or being under siege.
Repeat after me: Men Must Rescue Themselves.
Continue reading Evaluating Men For Alliances & Marriage Series: Get Your Sexy On! after the jump
“I am not tragically colored. There is no great sorrow dammed up in my soul, nor lurking behind my eyes. I do not mind at all. I do not belong to the sobbing school of Negrohood who hold that nature somehow has given them a lowdown dirty deal and whose feelings are all hurt about it. Even in the helter-skelter skirmish that is my life, I have seen that the world is to the strong regardless of a little pigmentation more or less. No, I do not weep at the world—I am too busy sharpening my oyster knife.”
Zora Neale Hurston
Continue reading Inspirational Quotes Series: Zora Neale Hurston after the jump
“We delight in the beauty of the butterfly, but rarely admit the changes it has gone through to achieve that beauty.”
Continue reading Remembering Dr. Maya Angelou after the jump
THIS IS WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU FALL FOR ANYTHING
For months there was a bit of a public shaming attempt at getting SNL creator Lorne Michaels to hire a black woman comic. It had been a number of years since the cast reflected the diversity of the country and one of the black male comics didn’t want to perform female characters in drag anymore. SMH. I was very wary about SNL hiring a random black comedienne with no parameters. Not to mention that SNL was never that diverse, especially compared to other sketch comedy shows like Mad TV (see Deborah Wilson for the level of quality SNL “could not find”). I tuned the show out years ago given I was NOT represented – and if we’re going to give an honest evaluation – when were black women really represented well there?
With much fanfare, SNL announced they were adding a new black woman writer AND performer. A two-fer!! Call me unimpressed, as their recent additions weren’t going to compel me to automatically start watching. Behind the scenes talk had indicated SNL had auditioned numerous funny ladies for several years but would ignore them when it came to making a hiring decision. There was even some intentional deflection and insulting speculation (by the performing dummy in drag) that black women were somehow not qualified! Given that sense of disdain and the poor quality of the black male talent they have on the show, I’m not sure they want stellar talent since the attention could serve as a launching pad to an enterprising performer.
Continue reading The Vortex Of Coonery Strikes Again: Black Women & Rape Jokes Are Not Funny after the jump
And you don’t have to wait until after you’re 30 to do it! Whether it’s a life change, a rebirth, an awakening or a newly-executed life trajectory not everyone will follow a straight A to Z in achievement. Many people don’t accomplish things until well past a junior life epiphany — but early enough to avoid the potential mid-life crisis that causes distress to others. So, it goes without saying that (in the most favorable outlook) it’s never too late to BE.
Just look at this list of achievers and the ages when they had their breakthroughs to take comfort that if you are still looking for your niche, YOU will FIND it. And if you’re settled in life then be the encouragement to someone else! You never know what how valuable a supportive network is in feeding the fertile ground to someone’s dream no matter what their age or their current life circumstances.
Continue reading These People Made Game-Changing Moves After They Were 30. So Can You. after the jump